Either you have them and feel miserable or you don’t have them and feel useless?
The approach towards goals in life is a two edged sword. You need goals to keep on going but they can’t be sitting up too high. The solution? Different categories of goals? Different level of goals? Name it as you wish, the problem stays the same.
There is however a possible way. It is working, but really difficult to go through with.
Instead of changing your goals as frequent as you hopefully change your underwear, you should change your way of going through life. We can do anything, agreed, but not at the same time. Some call it the big five and forget about ourselves changing over time, other call it their destiny. Let’s just call it a vision board. When your boss asks the question of all questions. “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” The answer is inevitable at the tip of your tongue, ready to be spoken out aloud.
What do you live for? What do you want to be known for? What do you want? Those are the questions we should be able to answer. Those are the questions people don’t even have to ask. They should see it. They should notice in an instand what your life is all about.
Do not set goals and try to reach them one day in the future. Change your life right now. Whatever you want to do, start today to be the person you want to become. Is it really that easy? Yes it is. Instead of waiting we have to take action. Make today count and you will see, tomorrow is just a matter of time. Reaching your goals becomes just a matter of time.
See you next time!