Three words that can indeed make the difference all together and change your life. But of course, it is always easier said than done, right? We have all these obligations, a family, a job, and all those other things we have acquired over time. We can hardly change our life from one day to the other. That doesn’t seem to be possible.
But in fact, this is possible! But only if you believe in yourself!
Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re right.Henry Ford
The difference between who you are today and who you want to be in the future is totally up to you! It’s not the lottery win next week, it’s not your boss that finally sees the talent in your work, it is just you and your mindset.
A WINNERS MINDSET WINS MORE OFTEN THAN A LOSERS MINDSET!
We can see this in basically every walk of life. From racing to the business world. From sports to discussions in the bar. It’s the way you walk, the way you speak, the way others perceive you. But it doesn’t even stop there. It is also the way you are doing things. The way you represent yourself.
Imagine sitting in a race car with the need to defend your leading position in the last lap. Which kind of an opponent do you want? The one that is confidently flashing its headlights while getting closer in the slipstream, positioning himself in your mirrors all the time and having the reputation to risk everything in order to finish first, even in the last lap. Or do you prefer a different kind of opponent that has already given up on getting your position. Just rolling behind you without really getting much closer and avoiding any kind of risks to lose the second place?
The thing about this story is of course, that the guy behind is the same in both cases. The difference is just in your mind. In the first case, you fear to lose your position, while in the second one, you do not fear to lose your position after all. But how is this possible?
This is the mindset you have. Are you able to stay confident? Even under pressure? Are you able to rely on your skills and perform in the way you have practiced it a thousand of times in the past already? Or do you lose your shit and freak out?
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE, YOU CAN DO THIS RIGHT NOW, RIGHT HERE!
Because this change needs to start in your head. It is the mindset you need that is so important. Winning starts in your head, but losing as well. If you want to change your life, change it. The world doesn’t hold you back. Nobody is holding you back. It’s just you that is doing that! You are limiting yourself. You are talking your skills down. You do not trust yourself enough!
Changing someones life seems to be way easier compared to changing our own ones. We see the problems and issues in other peoples lives way faster than we see our own faults. But this is just our perspective on this world.
OPEN YOUR EYES AND TELL ME WHAT YOU SEE, CLOSE YOUR EYES AND DO THE VERY SAME THING. THE WORLD DOESN’T CHANGE, IT’S YOUR PERSPECTIVE THAT CHANGES.
Why don’t you stop dreaming about a better future and instead just live your dreams? Life is too short for wasting it with doing unimportant stuff that is not getting you anywhere close to your goals.
Time is limited, therefore, use every second you have. And well, sometimes, this means cutting things off. Prioritizing is the key word towards success. If you really want to get there, well, this means making sacrifices. I hope you are ready for this?
But the mindset is of course so much more than just that. I could go on for hours, telling you all the different things you might need in order to have success in the end. But well, you already know most of these things. It’s not that we do not know all of that, it’s rather that we tend to forget, because it makes life just so much easier.
In the end, there is no perfect mindset and there will be non in the future. Nobody is perfect! Sure, you can work on this every single day and get the best out of it. But in the end, you will always experience set backs. People you trusted that do not believe in your skills and talk you down. Things that simply happen like the corona thing these days. Sure, we have all dealt with situations like this. I guess a real solution to these situations are not available on the market. But as always in life, you do not need to do anything. If people waste your time, well, ignore them. If things hold you back, find a way around them. This is your life. Nobody can stop you! I know, they will try, but if you don’t care, they will give up some day or another.
See you next time!