Whatever comes to mind, just don’t!
We say yes to too many things. We don’t want to disappoint anyone. But the truth is, we can hardly do what we are already trying to do.
In life, we can literally do anything. But anything doesn’t mean everything. We can not do all the things there are. We need to pick, to decide, to chose.
“Just don’t” isn’t the nicest way of saying no, I agree. But it is necessary. Too often we do too much. We say yes to too many things. We try to be nice.
The truth is, we can’t handle another thing. Instead, it would be better to reduce our current projects. To stop doing too much and focus more on the essential parts of our existence.
Doing nothing? Watching the thing hitting the wall? In life, sometimes we need to crash. Sure, it will hurt, but we will learn so much from it. The impact will transform our life. Allow improvements to show up on the horizon.
A couple of weeks ago a “former” friend of mine asked to stop having any contact. Do I miss her? Yes, I do. Does it hurt? Of course it does. We have talked so much, spend so much time. She became a part of life, a part of my life, my universe. But hitting the wall can also be a good thing. At least now I know the truth. I can reset my priorities. But it takes time to understand. Time to get over with things.
Just don’t loose your head.
Never loose your focus. Never look back. Never stop.
A life is just that, a defined period of time spend on and around this place we call earth. How we spend our time is up to us. What we do, what we don’t do. This post is dedicated to you, my former friend. You will always have a special place in the back of my mind. I wish you all the best! Goodbye!
Stopping this. It might be harder for you than it is for me? Maybe not, but you took your decision. You made place for something new. You have reset your priorities. And the last thing I want to do is holding you back. Do what you have to do!
See you next time!
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